I figured out something for you on that tach output that you will like!
When you set the stinger to tach output it makes ground pulses. The stock tack needs to see a small positive voltage pulse to work. So what I did was put a pull-up resistor to 12v ign and it works beautiful! So set one aux output to be tachometer, hook the wire to the black tach wire in the dash harness, and hook a 2.5k ohm resistor from the tach wire to a switched 12v ignition wire.
To test it I used a 5k ohm pot and varied the resistance, and I found that just about any value resistor from 1k to 5k would work, but around 2.5k 1/4w or 1/2w should be good.