Hey, us mere mortals need to eat. Was good too. Wife is Russian and cooks everything from scratch.
Not much of a drop so good news. The odds are the system is able to deliver what fuel the engine needs. Did it do anything weird then or does it only do it under boost?
The bouncing may be because you didn't snap quick enough. When I say snap I mean rate of change ie; you need to snap it open quickly but leave it open long enough for rpm to get way up so the engine is calling for lots of fuel. Try a few more times to be sure. You'd better have the vacuum line off or it's all for nothing. Course, with the line connected pressure should change with manifold vacuum.
With the fuel system checked you can turn your attention to fuel control and ignition. Start by confirming the O2 sensor is working. Use Vf for that. Once that's done you can look into open loop operation. All that said you have to remember that, fuel system aside, the EFI system will not be at fault 98% of the time. I'm taking your word you have no induction leaks, codes, and timing is correct.
As far as the residual pressure goes picture the supply side of the fuel system as a closed volume. It's pressurized up to the regulator and the regulator leaks back a controlled amount to the tank. That's how fuel pressure is controlled. When you shut the engine off the regulator should close tight, as do all the injectors and a check valve in the fuel pump. That leaves the system pressurized. Since yours is not staying pressurized that means fuel is leaking past one of those things or out into the world. None of this is going to cause lean running. I'm just explaining why your rest pressure is bad.