Be warned I have a lot to say and this is as short as I could make it
Regardless if you having a bad day or not its just plain stupid to talk back to any type of authority figure regardless of who they are, weather that be a professor (or teacher), boss, police officer, or even parent. Like it or not they have power over you plain and simple, professor is the ultimate authority on your grade, a boss/supervisor hold your job in their hands, police officer has the authority to write tickets, an d even detain you if they see fit. It boils down to this, somewhere along the line these people in authority have done a good enough job to be given this power, and this higher power had placed a certain amount of trust that the individual wont abuse it in any way shape or form, more simply “with great power comes great responsibility”. This is the exact reason why police tend to side with other police, and deans with professors, ECT… so weather you like it or not they do have power over you.
Now as with anything in the little green planet there are ALWAYS acceptations to the rule, we’ve all seen them and experienced them in one form or another. Maybe the boss who has it out for you, or the professor who doesn’t like you for whatever reason and takes it out on you grade. The point is this is just a few bad apples for the most part the rest of the group isn’t like this at all, this is why stereotypes develop. But history is filled with people flaunting their power. But ill spare my thoughts on this and focuses on what I believe is a big factor of this little incident
Tone of voice is a big factor in how we (as Humans) react to people. If someone goes up to another individual with a smile on their face and greets you with a “hello how are you today” Most of the time the response will be a pleasant one. And even if that individual is having a bad day and wont admit it, that happy person will have just made everything seem brighter. I cant count the number of times that, happy tone of voice has made the difference in my day.
Now the same is true for the opposite, and I can give an example. This past weekend I decided to make a trip back home to see my friends, they don’t go to school, and we decided to go see a movie. Even before the movie has started, even before the previews I was talking recanting my stories of the good ol’ Fort and my life buried in books. I was talking at the proper volume so as not to disturbe the other movie goers, when this lady tells me to “shut the hell up and stop talking”, i am immediately put on the defensive because her tone of voice and language show me so. Now that things evolve from there which I won’t go into the details for the purposes of this, but this hopefully illustrates my point.
Now the start of the situation. At roughly 1:15 give or take here the conversation that I hear.
COP: Got any id on you
KID: Ahh yea i do,
COP: Can I see it
KID: did I do something wrong?
COP: Yea you a suspicious vehicle
KID: Im what?
COP: (listen to tone of voice very important) you are a suspicious vehicle rite now
Here is what I believe happened after that In my opinion. Kid immediately got on the defensive throwing the “it’s a community lot” in the cops face which just makes the cop madder.
At this point the kid could have avoided this whole ordeal if he had just shut his mouth and let the cop yell at him . That would require him to admit fault but all in all he probably would have gotten out of that situation a lot sooner then he did. And if he did receive a ticket he would have had the tape showing him keeping his mouth shut, cooperating with the cop, and the cop just yelling at him which makes it look a lot more favorable for him. Instead he kept pushing the issue having to be rite and this just antagonized the cop even more making the situation worse.
Now as for the cop yelling at the kid threatening him, that is way out of line but I can understand the reason behind it even if it was wrong. Cops are supposed to be able to keep their cool in any situation regardless of circumstances surrounding a given situation. They are supposed to be able to see the law neutrally without any bias and certainly not to use the law and his power to intimidate. With his power comes responsibility an given the stereotype surrounding police and their abuse of power this does nothing but add to that view.
Now shit is gonna happen regardless, the only question is how will you as in individual react. Little words I live by “fuck the dumb shit” meaning it just isn’t worth it to get all angry. I actually find anger a very funny emotion and enjoy sitting back and watch the chaos unfold, occasionally adding the fuel to the fire just so I have some more entertainment.