So... I reread a few pages back, and can't remember if we answered the question: Does the STOCK gauge wander above "mid-point" (rise toward the red) at any point in time? (Or was it REPLACED altogether with the aftermarket, and subsequently more responsive gauge?) ...not always HELPFUL if the several degree variance is alarming yet completely within the sensitivity of the oem unit...
(Although my aftermarket DOES wander... I am not seeing temps in the 200* range... even with pretty aggressive setup. On the other hand, KOYO radiator and other tuning elements keekp me on the "rich" and "safe" side in many respects, including cam timing and ignition, so perhaps I can't judge the oem/aftermarket gauge relativity next to a mostly stock vehicle...)
Still curious where your issues lies... be sure to post if there IS a EUREKA! moment to this whole thing!
-crisp