I am not trying to get air through the compressor, the spraying of water on it, cold water, will help cool it down. You would see the effect of the cold water on the condenser if you had a gauge hooked up to the high side.
As you are spray the condenser with cold water, don't be greedy, soak it down and go inside and see if the temperature at the vent got any cooler. If it did, two things, a bad condenser, but you replaced it, so next would be not enough air passing through it.
The compressor theory is based on our shop's experience remanufactured compressors. It could be a defective one.
Did you read my post on the Maxima that had the SAME problem your car is having? You are getting cold air, the maxima wouldn't and the compressor was running. We changed every component, and I mean everything. Nothing was left to get changed besides the belt that was turning the compressor. The issue? It was the expansion valve. It was replaced twice but it came with a screw for adjustment and it was misadjusted so it would not open at the correct pressures. We had to play with the adjustment on the valve, a little screw that controlled a ball and spring, until it opened at the right pressure and then bam, super cold A/C. Check your expansion valve if you have the old one out, does it have any adjustment?