If you buy the recoil 37100 kit it comes with the tap, you would just need the drill bit, either 10.25mm or 13/32. The tap does not say what size it is, just has their part numbers on it, but I believe it is larger than m10-1.25 as the is the inside of the tread insert size. If i recall I think I got my kit from Grainger, but it appear there are many for sale on eBay as well.
Like I said, Google it and you can see what all is in the kit and many places to purchase.
FYI, hope your EGR cooler gasket does not blow as well, I just changed mine last week with the motor in the car and it is a MAJOR pain in the A$$. I had to go by a thin flex head ratchet at Harbor Freight just to replace it. The oem Toyota gasket I got did not appear to be steel either, was some type of carbon, but was much beefier than what was left of the POS aftermarket gasket that was installed.
Like I said, Google it and you can see what all is in the kit and many places to purchase.
FYI, hope your EGR cooler gasket does not blow as well, I just changed mine last week with the motor in the car and it is a MAJOR pain in the A$$. I had to go by a thin flex head ratchet at Harbor Freight just to replace it. The oem Toyota gasket I got did not appear to be steel either, was some type of carbon, but was much beefier than what was left of the POS aftermarket gasket that was installed.