Act of kindness from a complete stranger...that's rare

DonS1mpson

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AF1JZ;954400 said:
You should try, you'll feel good about yourself.

You shouldn't hold doors for people to make yourself feel better, you should do it because it the "right" thing to do.

If you don't, you're doing it for selfish reasons and I quite frankly think that worse than not holding the door open at all.
 

OneJoeZee

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DonS1mpson;954546 said:
You shouldn't hold doors for people to make yourself feel better, you should do it because it the "right" thing to do.

If you don't, you're doing it for selfish reasons and I quite frankly think that worse than not holding the door open at all.

It makes me feel better to do things for other people.

No where was it said opening doors for strangers is expected.

There's nothing selfish about it. They feel good, I feel good.
 

slidebabyslide

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I buy candy from kids that knock on my door and don't eat it? I hold doors for people that are behind me. When the service adviser at my work asks me if i want to cut down on the labor because the person does not have all of the cash i give them breaks on the labor side.....also to students.
 

GotBoost?

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I used to stop and help people out. I changed tires, helped with phone calls to get help. I stopped helping people roadside since lots of scumbags have killed their good samaritan right here in my state. I do have a family to come home to.

I once saw this elderly couple sitting inside their car, with a flat tire. I asked them if they needed help, he said yes and popped the trunk. So i got the spare out and change the tire, while they stayed inside the car. So I get done and approached their window to tell them I was done. He said thank you and rolls his window buck up. I thought OK... A more enthusiastic response would have been nice. Anyways

But then there was this time last summer (90 degrees F) I was driving northbound and saw this van pointing southbound and sitting roadside. As I went by I saw an elderly woman (about 70 y.o) trying unsuccessfuly to flag traffic down. So i went to the nearest exit and turned around. There were two more elderly ladies sitting at the side of the van. It was getting dark, they were stranded and very anxious, their destination about 500 miles away. It turned out their van was out of coolant due to a busted pump. So i drove them to a gas station to wait for airport transportation, which the wife helped arrange. They used my cell to call a relative to come and pick the van later. These ladies were very grateful and wanted to pay for my time and gas, but I refused to accept any payment.
 

ERA

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I try and acknowledge people who pass by as I walk (people older than myself usually) with a smile, wave, a nod. I don't know why or if this counts for something lol. Along with the 'holding doors for people' and other common courtesy stuff.
 
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s0ulstar;954079 said:
a homeless dude asked me for a dollar for some food, i gave him a cheeseburger and walked away. 2 seconds later, i saw the burger fly right past my head and i heard the homeless man yell, "i said a dollar motherfucker!"

not exactly an act of kindness on his part. but oh well.

another time, another homeless man asked me for a dollar as well. i asked him what it was for and he told me that he didn't want to lie and it was for a beer. i pulled out a dollar and gave it to him.

honest, homeless people are a lot better than angry, homeless people. lol.

I offered some food instead of money and they guy replied " hey, I want money" I said, sorry but food or nothing and he just walked away.

Nice to see nice stories though :)

Duane
 

Clueless

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x10secondzx2;954691 said:
I buy lots of candy and toys and drive around in my big white panel van trying to give it away. But nobody ever takes it. All the kids scream and run away really fast. I don't get it.

something about that sounds fishy....
 

Dunckel

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I like to go to those coffee houses/shacks on street corners, (they are pretty popular here) and give the barista a $10 and tell them it is for the person behind me, and the rest is for her, then drive away. I like the fact that they cannot say thank you.
 

oowee623

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i gave a friend of mine an extra set of side mirrors i had because someone broke his for free cause he drove me from long beach to driftmotion on his day off work to get my ecu fixed
 

Rennat

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ILikeCarsYesIDo;954110 said:
Acts of kindness remind me of that one episode of Doug where he finds the envelope of cash. He then returns the cash and in return for old lady gives him a stick of gum.

Fuck that! He should've listened to Roger.


hahaha... thats funny, because my rebuild would be costing me hundreds more if it wasnt for you.

you have single handly helped my rebuild repeatedly...

good 7m crank... water pipe... crank pulley timing thing... head... so much shit! hahaha
 

7MGTEsup

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I was at Kings Cross station in London a few years ago when I saw a guy drop 2 credit cards. I walked accross and picked them up befor anyone else noticed. Ran about 100 yards to catch him up and said "Hay you dropped these" he didn't even say thankyou. Helped a biker drag his bike out of a bush on a tight corner that he missjudged. I always look out for other people because I hope when I fuck up someone will come to my aid.
 

AF1JZ

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OneJoeZee;954574 said:
It makes me feel better to do things for other people.

No where was it said opening doors for strangers is expected.

There's nothing selfish about it. They feel good, I feel good.

Exactly!!! Thanks Joe
 

deabionni

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x10secondzx2;954691 said:
I buy lots of candy and toys and drive around in my big white panel van trying to give it away. But nobody ever takes it. All the kids scream and run away really fast. I don't get it.

free_candy_van.jpg


:yelrotflm
 

TooGoode

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HommerSimpson;954169 said:
someone on here rebuilt there motor and did it worng.. pretty much said they didnt have the money to fix and would be riding buss for long time.. I sent him a stock grafite headgasket i had ...... for free .. Does that count ? hehehehehe


gave many a bum 5 bucks to ...said if ya get drunk.. and dont eat.. nobody to blame but yourself
\\\and i appreciate it very much!!! the motor is almost done!!
 

zm_br

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I try to help people out all the time. I'll give stranded people rides, and push people out of snow drifts or the ditch in the winter. Holding the door goes without question, especially here at work where we have keycards to unlock the door.

When I was in college, I was working for the city's street crew during one summer. I'd put notices on cars parked on streets that the crew was going to overlay the next day, so the owners would know to not park there. (If the cars weren't moved, we had the fun of calling a tow truck and watching it get towed around the corner). We overlaid a street next to a church in the south end of town on a hot day. After the crew made their pass, people showed up to the church for a funeral, and parked in the street. Of course, the rocks were still everywhere.
An older lady parked her 80s Camry right where a bunch of tar pooled up. She came out after the service, and saw that her rear passenger tire deflated. I don't know if she ran over something or if it was the heat from the tar, but she was ticked. She demanded that the Street Crew's manager do something about it, which he showed no interest. I volunteered to change it, and ran to this car dealership next door to borrow a tire iron. Her spare tire was sitting in a pool of water in the bottom of her trunk. Rust everywhere. Spare was flat, so I had to go back to the dealership to fill it up. Getting the jack to work was fun, too, since her car was in a lot of tar that pooled up along the entire gutter.
I got the tire changed, and there was not much thanks from her. I think I heard that she sued the city for a new tire. Haha. I should have just let that one go...
 

flight doc89

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DonS1mpson;954546 said:
You shouldn't hold doors for people to make yourself feel better, you should do it because it the "right" thing to do.

If you don't, you're doing it for selfish reasons and I quite frankly think that worse than not holding the door open at all.

its selfish to take joy in helping people?


anyways, i forgot that i occassionally pick up hitchhikers whenever our destinations match, otherwise i'll give them a gatorade or something, whatever i have handy in truck.

On two occasions, i've bought some beer for a road paving crew
 

SupraMario

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I've done stuff like this before, handing bums money, taken people home, changed tires...etc. My father is a big reason I'm like this, always wanting to help, and so I am also, but I have come to realize that I continue to help and do but more people these days are looking for a hand out, I can only hope that out of the many I help, that there is 1 that truly needed it.

REMEMBER Karma is there if you believe in it or not. One day you will be that person on the side of the road or needing help, and one day, if you have done your favors, then your karma will be cashed in.
Every thing comes back to you in the end.
 

Idealsupra

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DonS1mpson;954546 said:
You shouldn't hold doors for people to make yourself feel better, you should do it because it the "right" thing to do.

If you don't, you're doing it for selfish reasons and I quite frankly think that worse than not holding the door open at all.

OneJoeZee;954574 said:
It makes me feel better to do things for other people.

No where was it said opening doors for strangers is expected.

There's nothing selfish about it. They feel good, I feel good.




Not to get TOO much into the psych side of it.... pretty much EVERYTHING like this that someone does is based around being selfish, whether they know it or not. And Joes comment just proved it.