I seem to be replying to a lot of your threads/comments lately. Colorado is coming alive on here i guess.
If you haven't already I'd strongly encourage you to go over to Blucore and do their pistol rental. I believe they have a couple smaller xD framed guns to try out.
I have two buddies with compact xD pistols.
-One is the xDs in 45. I have larger hands than average and I generally like a thicker grip, but the xDs was surprisingly comfortable to handle. Not my ideal pistol, but it wasn't as bad as I expected. It was actually very smooth for such a small framed 45.
-I'm pretty sure the other is a plain xD compact in .40. Still smooth and ok to handle. The grip isn't my ideal size, but it's still a great gun.
I started out looking at the xD lineup and was nearly sold until I shot a ton of pistols at Blucore. I've now shot a couple dozen pistols from friends and what Blucore has for rental and I'm very glad I did. I won't be buying a Springfield anymore. Not because they aren't great guns, but because I found a few other designs that I like better.
I found a few things:
-I don't necessarily like the striker fire pistols. I don't really know why. My first pistol was a Sig p239 and I guess I got used to the SA/DA and know that's what I expect and am most comfortable with. This leans me away from the xD lineup.
-The safety features I was impressed with online on the Springfield don't mean much to me anymore. While the idea of the grip safety, trigger safety and loaded chamber indicator are fantastic I never found them useful while at the range. Perhaps I was just focused on other things, like say the targets downrange and general gun safety 101.
-The triggers on all the xDs I've fired were not overly impressive. They were fine, not amazing. Were it not for my extra exposure to a variety of other pistols I probably wouldn't notice.
-The triggers on Sig Sauers seem consistently better than some other manufacturers. The HK USP I tried was also good, but I'd say the Sig P226 was above all I've ever fired.
-The grip on some pistols feels VERY awkward for me. Most notably the narrow single stack mag semi-autos. The CZ factory grip feels awful IMO. Kinda like very rough sandpaper. Not enjoyable.
-The grips on some pistols were very comfortable. Sig p226 was the winner, but the HK USP also stood out. I believe the full size xD was also comfortable.
You asked for thoughts and now I've rambled for about 5 minutes so I should stop. Thanks for giving me a mini-therapy session to vent my Sig P226 obsession. I was planning on an xD this year, but now I'm holding out while my gun fund grows so I can buy the P226 instead. It's about double the price, but there was an obvious quality difference firing the two one after the other.
Go shoot around and see what you like. For me, all my hours of internet research was shot to hell with only 45 minutes firing a dozen or so pistols back to back in real life.