Serious responses, please

xXxICExXx

xXxICExXx

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As of 4 hours ago, my girlfriend of two years dumped me at her family gathering. I know what you are all thinking, wow at a family gathering....she has the mentality to not care when shes mad. For the most part, no one knew we were fighting anyways. My question goes out to all you friends who have been here, and made the right decision. What should I do? Flat out, I love her. I spent my whole life waiting for this one person to come along, and until now its been so great I cannot even use words to describe it. I brought her to the Pacific NW suprafest this summer, and she is taking out a loan to get a supra of her own I mean come on, shes the one for me. I knew this right from the start two years ago...

I know, this may seem weird for some of you to hear on these forums, but honestly I dont know where to go 4 hours after this tragedy. Please....serious responses. Forget all this supra bullshit, I need some help.
 
phoenix6

phoenix6

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me and my gf feel the same way about eachother, weve had nasty fights, broken up even a few times, I fought, sometimes I begged. Whatever way you go about doing this to get her back, if she loves you the same way you love her, youll get her back, otherwise she really wasnt the one. I understand EXACTLY the way you feel about her, Im the same way about mine, trust in love, try and make up for it even if it wasnt your fault. Id say as long as there wasnt any cheating on involved then you have good chances. Everyones case is diff, but you said you guys dont fight much so Im assuming yours has good chance, if you fight for her, do something so amazing she wont see it coming... hell pull a John Cusack from Say Anything...

Take a scene from a movie, do something similar and just as drastic, girls love drama and when they feel like they are in a movie, you got it.

also, its only been 4 hrs. My first big fight with my gf was 2 weeks long b4 I got her back, I took my co workers advice, IGNORE HER then later way later send her like a txt... hey, what you doin....


from there it worked, little did I know she was just to stubborn to say she wanted me back, even though it was only 2 months in. Our biggest fight last dec she was getting depressed about pretty much ended it, and I went to her, grabbed her and told her to her face, what the hell is going on? How can you say were not for eachother, and I pointed out how basically, we were meant to be and she knew this wasnt what she wanted. I was right.
 
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jtamulis

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Don't call her at ALL for a week or two. It will be by FAR the hardest thing you
ever did. When my wife left me, this one girl I know told me not to call her
for like two weeks, and not answer her calls for at least one week. When I did
after two weeks, she called and said she was worried about me and could we
talk. It did work, we're still together.

Jeff
 
Supracentral

Supracentral

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If you need to maniupulate your woman like that, I'd say that's a problem to start with...

At this point in my life I don't want to deal with that much bullshit.

Just my $.02, ymmv.
 
Reign_Maker

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How old are you Ice?

I was 27 when I met my wife... You know how many times I was in "love" before her? Now I KNOW what love is... You know how many girls I was with before her that I KNEW were the ones for me, and I could give you reasons for all of them...
Here's a quick test for you... Sit down and write 10 things you love about her... You should be able to pop off ten things with out stopping to think... If you get to 5, and you have to stop, and tap your finger, and think think think... then she's not the one for you...

Good luck man...
 
lagged

lagged

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the only thing i can say that might help is, if you two really love each other then shell come back to you.

if you think she still loves you, do everything you can to get her back. try very hard though not to be clingy and try not to beg her.

make sure she knows how you feel, and try to spend almost as much time with her as you would have if you were together.

get her some flowers here and there and if its ment to be she will come back.
 
MassSupra89

MassSupra89

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americanjebus said:
why did she dump you in the firstplace??? maybe start there.
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Exactly... What led up to this fight and how did she end it?
We cant give advice or opinions if we dont know the history of it.
 
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