it depends on how old this guy is...if he's a 20 something..he's gonna do this all over again.and again..and again
like we all did
dude..if theres this much drama..consider it a blessing...dosent seem like it now...but if you got back with her...what's it going to be like 10 yrs from now?
drink a beer or six, do some therapudic spending on the supe, and when it all blows over, another one will come along for the next ride..trust me, you'll fall totally just in as much love with her, and we will be revisiting this thread in another year and a half
when you are facing a divorce with kids and house and cars and furniture and bank accounts and retirement funds and child support..
...tonight wont seem all that bad