Still no backup lights? That stinks. It should be simple, which is always a bad way to start a sentence... I may have misled you with my previous post, so I'll try again. Hopefully I won't make it worse.
First you need a yellow wire from the fuse box with power. If not it's a bad fuse or body wiring. That should connect to the small oval two wire connector from the trans. I believe it is white. It does not have to have matching color wires between the connector and the trans. I can't recall, but they may be the same generic color, like white. The connector to trans wires are considered part of the backup light switch assembly and would not be on the TEWD.
Then you need a red wire with black stripe that is in continuity (series) with the backup light bulbs. That should be easy to identify by energizing the wire anywhere in the pathway with body-grounded 12v battery to light the backup lights. Then just look for the red/black wire (near the front of the trans on the driver's side, near the starter) that goes to 12v when you do that. BOTH THE YELLOW AND THE RED/BLACK WIRE SHOULD BE ON THE SAME OVAL CONNECTOR, which should mate with the connector coming from the trans.
If you have a body with an automatic trans, then the yellow wire is the middle lower pin (pin 5) from a big 6-pin plastic harness, mine was grey. The red/black wire is pin 1 from a smaller three wire harness. These wires have to be spliced to the backup switch small oval two-pin connector mentioned above. It is a common connector, also used for other circuits, so I was able to salvage the complimentary connector from a discarded engine harness, and solder it to the yellow and red/black wires for a perfect match to the backup light connector.
I hope this works for you.
Vic