There is no disagreement that targas "flex" more with the roof off. The disagreement is that you can permanently deform the car chassis by driving it "hard"(this is not flex, it is permanent deformation). You will not "bend" the chassis over time from driving it hard. This would be called creep, and it absolutely does not apply in this case (requires HIGH temperatures and prolonged stress). A one-time overload (such as an accident) of the body steel past its yield point would be required to bend the chassis. The steel body of the car will also not soften over time. If you were to deform the metal, it would actually strengthen as a result of cold work. The only way the car structure would lose strength is if the spot welds which hold the panels together begin to fail. If this was to happen, the body of the car would become progressively weaker (and more dangerous) before failing catastrophically.
For what its worth, my targa sits perfectly on the roof when unscrewed.
For what its worth, my targa sits perfectly on the roof when unscrewed.