IJ left for his reasons, he did not make them abundantly clear at the time he chose to leave, and that was his choice. No sense even worrying about it. If he wants to come back he's welcome here, if not it's a loss to the forum, but it is his choice, it's only the internet.
In any case, you can't please everyone, and one person (or even a small group of people) can't make everybody happy. Especially as a community grows and changes over time, people change, things change, not everyone will like the direction things go, nor would I expect them to. Despite how well-standing a person in the community is, it really doesn't pain me too much to see someone decide to leave, I'd rather they be happy somewhere else than miserable here. The best way to have a site where everyone is happy is to discourage growth, and hand-pick who will be on the site, but ultimately that is not what Supramania is about, we enjoy growth and new people with new ideas. It's hard to keep a site this large balanced, but in my eyes anyways, Supramania is doing it's best, and won't change for one person.
All that being said, this thread is staying closed, I hope that most of your questions/concerns were answered in my post, if you have any other concerns, feel free to drop me a line via PM and I'd be glad to talk about most anything with most anyone. See ya around.
Jeff