gaboonviper85;1037545 said:But he's a handsome little shit......
Pedophilia is not the answer................:evil2:
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gaboonviper85;1037545 said:But he's a handsome little shit......
suprahero;1036892 said:Let me guess, you want me to bring Vonda..............:biglaugh:
Skam9685;1037890 said:One day he will shoot up or blow up a school. Lashing out on those that humiliate him.
Skam9685;1037890 said:One day he will shoot up or blow up a school. Lashing out on those that humiliate him.
Supracentral;1038010 said:But public humiliation at the hands of his peers? Turning a room full of children into a jeering lynch mob?
suprahero;1038047 said:When Aaron disagreed with you about guns, you couldn't say you disagree with him. You had to call him a child, because he didn't have the same beliefs you did.
suprahero;1038038 said:So you're saying it's o.k. to ridicule someone as long as he's not five? Where do you stop the age of ridicule? You can't get into an argument on here without trying to ridicule someone. It's not enough to prove your point is right whenever someone disagrees with you, but you go out of your way to ridicule them and call them childish or fuckheads.
suprahero;1038038 said:I feel I'm just as entitled to my opinion of this as you are.
suprahero;1038038 said:I dont' think the kid will hold this as a scar for the rest of his life. The brain tends to forget things it wants too, or he can choose to remember it forever. Either way, I doubt it ruins his life.
suprahero;1038038 said:Should we as a democracy, only vote on things that aren't going to hurt peoples feelings?
suprahero;1038038 said:There's no way to win an argument against you, because you're smarter than the average bear, but your not the only one with an opinion. I'm sure you was on your highschool debate team and if you weren't you missed your calling.
suprahero;1038038 said:I go out of my way to avoid arguments, but I disagree with you on this one.
suprahero;1038038 said:It's not like they stood him in a corner and throwed tomatoes at him. They made him go to another classroom.........is that so bad?
foreverpsycotic;1038085 said:Maybe it was just me, but if I acted out in public, I would get spanked in public. If I acted out at home, I was spanked at home. Humiliation is one of the best forms of dicipline IMO, it leaves a lasting impression on the person, and next time they try and act out they will think of that and remember the consiquences. I kind of long for the days where people were emotionally tougher, not whiney snot nosed brats. "I am going to tell your father when he gets home!" instilled more fear than the police when I was younger, maybe that is what we need in this society. To make the next generation stronger emotionally, not emo kids.
Supracentral;1038054 said:So you're saying that the ridicule of the five year old is acceptable, however my ridicule of your heartless reaction should be silenced since it hurts your adult feelings? Perhaps the five year old isn't the only one who isn't well equipped to handle ridicule....
Supracentral;1038054 said:And you've had equal opportunity to post your opinion. I didn't delete your post. I didn't use moderation powers to silence or penalize you for it. I simply posted that it is my opinion that you're barbaric for attempting to justify treating a five year old like this.
Supracentral;1038054 said:First of all, we're not a democracy, we're a Constitutional Republic. I just wanted to get that little piece of ignorance out of the way. As such, what we are allowed to vote on is limited.
Supracentral;1038054 said:With that said, how we elect a govenrment has nothing to do with this discussion. What you are doing is building a straw man argument. What you've done is describe a position that superficially resembles my actual view (but is not my view), but is is one that is easier for you to refute since it's somewhat absurd. If you have to misrepresent my position to argue against it, or to make yours look better, something is wrong here.
Supracentral;1038054 said:So your stated position is that it is moral, ethical and right to use humiliation as a tool of discipline with a five year old? Ok, good for you. Personally I find it reprehensible.
Supracentral;1038054 said:I'll give you an example. If I'm managing an employee and he screws up, I don't walk up to him in front of his co-workers and ridicule him. I take him behind closed doors and discuss the problem.
The reason? He needs to work with these people going forward. He needs to be able to maintain some self respect, and not to be undermined.
Supracentral;1038054 said:What the teacher has done in this case is ostracized a young child who doesn't have the emotional armor to withstand that sort of treatment. This is a young child. He has no choices. He's stuck, facing a room full of people who have, as a mob, called him "disgusting" and "annoying".
Supracentral;1038054 said:Look at you. You're an adult and because I dared to call you out on your judgmental bullshit, you're bent out of shape with me. How's a five year old supposed to accept it from all of his peers at once?
Supracentral;1038054 said:Mob mentality is a dangerous thing. I'll guarantee you that none of those kids feel they could be his friend now, because they would get ridiculed by the mob as well. There's extensive study out there on the behavior of crowds and the mob mentality. You should probably go read up on it.
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Supracentral;1038054 said:I can cite a couple of dozen sources that will state that using humiliation against a child is a destructive form of discipline.
Can you find me a few reputable child psychologists that state that public humiliation is a preferred, valid and valuable tool for disciplining young children?
I consider this emotional brutality against a small child, and there's considerable evidence to back that position.
Forgive me if I find the support of that brutality a bit reprehensible.
Supracentral;1038054 said:Mob mentality is a dangerous thing. I'll guarantee you that none of those kids feel they could be his friend now, because they would get ridiculed by the mob as well. There's extensive study out there on the behavior of crowds and the mob mentality. You should probably go read up on it.
suprahero;1038126 said:How do you even know he felt ridiculed. The paper doesn't say how the kid felt.
Barton said after the vote, Portillo asked Alex how he felt.
"He said, 'I feel sad,' " Barton said.
"He was shaken up," she said.
"He was incredibly upset," Barton said. "The only friend he has ever made in his life was forced to do this."
Thursday night, his mother heard him saying "I'm not special" over and over.
Alex hasn't been back to school since then, and Barton said he won't be returning. He starts screaming when she brings him with her to drop off his sibling at school.
suprahero;1038126 said:How do you even know he felt ridiculed. The paper doesn't say how the kid felt.
suprahero;1038126 said:So what if I think a five year old should be punished. Maybe we should let him do whatever the hell he wants too, and too hell with rules, laws and authority. That seems to be what you want..........
Supracentral;1038010 said:And if a child is being disruptive and interfering with other children's ability to learn, you can, and should, remove him from the class.
But public humiliation at the hands of his peers? Turning a room full of children into a jeering lynch mob?
suprahero;1038126 said:I never thought you would delete it. I feel you were baiting someone in and I fell for it. I'm only argueing with you because I know you love it. You need a good battle every now and then and I drew the short straw this time.........:icon_bigg
suprahero;1038126 said:Can't argue my ignorance with that one. I had to google it to make sure but it seems you're right once again. I googled to see what a constitutional republic is, and it didn't have an answer for me, so I choose not to argue this point with you. I bet some kid was acting up in class the day this was taught in elementarty class and I didn't hear what it was...............just kidding.
suprahero;1038126 said:I don't know what position I described that is superficial etc..........I didn't try and misrepresent your position, all I did was ask you a question about when is it o.k. to start ridiculing people. You have to have an answer, because it's not o.k. to ridicule five year olds, but it is o.k. to ridicule adults. When are they fair game for you?
suprahero;1038126 said:So your stated position is that it is moral, ethical and right to use humiliation as a tool of discipline with anybody? Ok, good for you. Personally I find it reprehensible.
suprahero;1038126 said:I I don't buy for one second that this will be the basis for the rest of his life.
suprahero;1038126 said:I Do the other kids have the emotional armor it takes to withstand his constant outbursts in class?
suprahero;1038126 said:I They are also youg children with no choices, stuck in a room with a rebellious five year old, that insists on doing his own thing no matter what the teacher has asked him to do. He should get a freaking metal or something for being so special.
suprahero;1038126 said:My opinion is not judgemental bullshit. You're the only one in here calling names, so who's being judgemental. Just because my opinion is different than yours, I'm an inhuman moron with barbaric beliefs...
suprahero;1038126 said:I Bent out of shape? Not in the least. I find it very amusing that someone as old as you can get so worked up over the internet everytime someone happens to have an opinion different than yours.
suprahero;1038126 said:I My religious beliefs are different than yours, but I don't find you ignorant because of it. I don't own a gun, but I don't find you moronic because you do. I don't have a stripper pole in my house, but I don't envy you beca.......o.k. I'll give you that one.
suprahero;1038126 said:I I have no idea what a five year old is thinking, and I wasn't aware that you did. Why would I want to read up on mob mentality. I don't plan on being set upon by a mob anytime soon, and I dont' plan on being part of any mob anytime soon.
suprahero;1038126 said:I I ask you again when does it become a constructive form of discipline for adults since you like to use it in all of your arguments. Are you trying to help these adults are humiliate them? Does it make you feel better about yourself?
suprahero;1038126 said:It makes you look weak in my eyes when you have to make someone else look bad to prove your point.
suprahero;1038126 said:I You can't state your opinion without taking it to extremes.
suprahero;1038126 said:I If that's what you have to do to be able to sleep at night then I'm glad I could help. I"m sure you'll sleep like a baby tonight after this.
suprahero;1038126 said:I I don't believe it's o.k. to ridicule anyone at any age.
suprahero;1038126 said:I I also don't believe in letting one child ruin it for sixteen others either.
suprahero;1038126 said:I think what the teacher did could have been handled differently, but it wasn't. Do I feel she should lose her job.......no.
suprahero;1038126 said:I Do I feel the mother of the child should be paid an outrageous amount of money because she refuses to teach her kid to mind his teacher.........hell no.
suprahero;1038126 said:As for your rebuttal to this, I'll just have to answer like yes or no, because this has taken me way too long to type, copy, and paste. I also have work to do. Be gentle.