after looking around on SF for some used parts, I came to the conclusion that if infact i cant get anything out of this place (parts i need or money back) that im just going to go to a stand alone. Theres a shop up hear that sells, builds and installs MicroTech, and compaired to the price of a Harness, and an ECU, it still turns out to be cheaper. Plus i already have an Emanage Blue, so i would just sell that.
I already thought of using a jza70 harness and ecu, but the microtech just seems like such a better choice. If im unhappy with the anwsers i get from Nagasaki, then im going to look into legal options, but i have a feeling im up shit creek without a paddle. Maybe this is a blessing in disguse, theres a good chance im going stand alone!