For a thread that nearly turned abusive, this has turned around bigtime. Of course, that might have something to do with the fact that some guy pretending to be a girl posted in here, and everyone got all hot and bothered. Remember guys, there are no women on the internet. None. EVER.
There is some pretty good advice showing up now.
I should point out a few things, or at least clarify a bit. The woman that I leaned over to open the door for is my wife, we've been together for over 10 years now, and she enjoyed it.
Recently she got even by doing the same to me in her Explorer, I get so used to the Supra that when it's dark out I can't fine the handle in HER car!
As for low cost dates, those are pretty easy. Anywhere that there is something to watch - hell, I've sat and watched a water fountain, for crying out loud. With the right company, it doesn't matter where you are. With the wrong company, it also doesn't matter where you are - you could be in the best restaurant in the world, with an unlimited budget, and if she's an evangelical white supremecist, I'm still going to drop her like third period Spanish. Do something that you enjoy, and next time, (when you have the budget to support it) do something that she enjoys. If you have a good time, keep going.
As for the subject of getting laid... that's another thing that I've never worried about. A girl will let you know if she wants to, and I've never run into a situation where it didn't evolve into sex eventually. As long as it really is a decision made by both (or in the case of Joe or IJ
, all) parties, it's all good.
As for the ladies who might read this, some of which might be offended by one or more posts in this thread... I hate to point it out, but when you walk into a domain primarily containing young men, you have to expect a certain amount of flippancy. Most of them aren't serious, and the wonderful thing about the ones that are is that this is the internet, you can ignore them.