Going on a date Friday, what should I do?
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OneJoeZee said:
well matt asked this girl out on the date and she had a friend that was going with her, i really dont know why. then he asked me if i would go with them bc there were two girls and i agreed. then we got to the girls house and there were two girls other than the one matt was going out with. so it was kind of akward. i just wasnt really into the girl i was suppossed to be going on the date with, and the third girl was dating someone. the whole date was kind of akward.:1zhelp::biglaugh:
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so you throw it all off key by slapping one of the chicks ass and either getting in a fight with the boyfriend or getting some nookie..
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LMAO at this thread! Haha...i drive a Supra and listen to Tiffany cd's...wait a minute...hey!!!
angrydrone said:
LOL. The way I see it the girl never had any date in mind. Just a hang out. Either matt didn't word it right and didnt come across as being interested in spending some personal time with JUST her, or she didn't care enough to acknowledge it and knowingly invited her friend on her date. but that makes it not a date anymore... and she even had other girls at her house to tag along?
Sounds pretty lame all around. So who's at fault for this date failure?
matt or the girl.btw, Matt, I think you just fell into the friend zone for not being assertive enough. good luck getting out. have your work cut out for ya. :[ the word date doesn't really belong anywhere in this thread
New Orleans is a beautiful city... or at least it used to be... moving here right now would probably not benefit you by any means... some of the city is still broken, or unused....I have lived here my entire life... born and raised.. I couldnt imagine living anywhere else.. I definately recommend visiting though. Everyone loves Da Big Easy... the food, the music... etc etc . As far as the date... there is always her side, his side and the truth... both i would say are at fault for not communicating more about the "plan" . group dates should be like festivals and whatnot. dates should be one on one , movies, dinner, beach , etc ... maybe next time suggest a drive just you and her. "space pants"? LMAO
... my 2 cents...
If ya like her, give her a call "out of the blue." Don't rehearse and think so hard about it. Just call and say "Hey, ya know... hanging out the other day was kewl. But maybe we can do it again, just U and me?"
Chances are that she was intimidated and not too experienced dating and wanted her girls to back her up, size U up, give her an "out," etc....
You could also call and tell her what all your Supra buddies recommend you do (piitb, slap her, etc), but you'll give her another chance to redeem herself and pay for your next date, or detail your freshly painted Sup ;-)
If ya like her, give her a call "out of the blue." Don't rehearse and think so hard about it. Just call and say "Hey, ya know... hanging out the other day was kewl. But maybe we can do it again, just U and me?"
Chances are that she was intimidated and not too experienced dating and wanted her girls to back her up, size U up, give her an "out," etc....
You could also call and tell her what all your Supra buddies recommend you do (piitb, slap her, etc), but you'll give her another chance to redeem herself and pay for your next date, or detail your freshly painted Sup ;-)
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the girl could of been overly shy and invited her friends because she was scared to go out with him one on one.. I have had this happen alot as well, in fact one girl i dated refused to date one on one simply because she said "She is too scared to get attached"
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Just avoid taking a girl to dinner on the first date, you'll find that your both trying to much to be overly polite and proper and it just makes it harder to talk to them, unless theres allot of chemistry already going on, care free situations like walking or hanging out 1 on 1 is the best way to get a real conversation started.
cajunangel said:
Sorry some of these guys are acting as boys. Off-topic is not the prime place to learn about the Supra, but to cut loose (within reason) and have a good time with the Girls/Guys. It all has to be taken lightly or else we would always have trouble on here.
Anyways, I am in a situation of my own with this type of stuff. I was introduced to this girl at the club last friday, she taught me to dance (yeah I was a non-dancing fool) and I had a great time. We danced for about 5 hours on and off, and the rest of the time chilled, talked, or she was drinking....... Anyways, I got her # and I am going to call her tonight, but have not been on a date in about 5 or 6 years (sad)... I am broke, but will think of something fun, or ask her to go dancing again. My friends want me to bone her, but I want something more and I don't and have not wanted a one night stand. I guess I am going to be getting a crash course here in the next few days.
Oh, and BTW, my friends know her from the past and they like to talk trash on her features like her nose. I could care less, she looks good to me. Here is a pic.....
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sorry the date did go but i have to agree with satan call her outta the blue. As for the morons who spend all there time trying to get in to womens pants its a waste of time what do u get after all that and most of then r probably pissed off.
good luck with your info hunt cajunangle.
As for u rpk2012 my friends consaly ask if iv boned my GF so i know what its like. as for the date i sugest not going dancing at least not the next date do something diffrent.mabey a movie, if your broke like me try going to her house to watch a movie,DO NOT go to yours UNLESS she tells u she sugest it. as for your date she's beautiful and if she took the time to teach u to dance more then likely she likes u.
good luck with your info hunt cajunangle.
As for u rpk2012 my friends consaly ask if iv boned my GF so i know what its like. as for the date i sugest not going dancing at least not the next date do something diffrent.mabey a movie, if your broke like me try going to her house to watch a movie,DO NOT go to yours UNLESS she tells u she sugest it. as for your date she's beautiful and if she took the time to teach u to dance more then likely she likes u.
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^werd, ive got a beatup 86 pickup and i always take the chick out in that first.. the supra isnt THAT much to look at but still..
americanjebus said:
idk about that one. I've never had that communication issue going to dinner on a first date.
rpk2012 said:Anyways, I am in a situation of my own with this type of stuff. I was introduced to this girl at the club last friday, she taught me to dance (yeah I was a non-dancing fool) and I had a great time. We danced for about 5 hours on and off, and the rest of the time chilled, talked, or she was drinking....... Anyways, I got her # and I am going to call her tonight, but have not been on a date in about 5 or 6 years (sad)... I am broke, but will think of something fun, or ask her to go dancing again. My friends want me to bone her, but I want something more and I don't and have not wanted a one night stand. I guess I am going to be getting a crash course here in the next few days.
Oh, and BTW, my friends know her from the past and they like to talk trash on her features like her nose. I could care less, she looks good to me. Here is a pic.....
On the left.....
Even if you're not that great at dancing, alot of girls like it when you make an effort and try and don't care if you look goofy or whatever as long as you're trying to have a genuine good time. I used to be like that early in HS. I'd go to dances and look goofy, but I didn't care. My date was entertained and that was what I was most worried about.
Forget what your friends think. You don't need their approval. As long as she is attractive to you, that's all that matters. Looks are subjective and not paramount when looking for a real meaningful relationship. Not to say I could just date someone I simply wasn't attracted to at all, but you get the idea...
Money shouldn't be that much of an issue. Plenty of good times can be had without spending a dime.
OneJoeZee said:
Thanks. Yeah I am just trying to decide what I might do. Like go to the park walk around, talk.... I dunno, go look at the stars with the targa off. haha. I just dunno what would be good for the first date..
BTW - her myspace is this http://www.myspace.com/ashlorine .... She sounds fun, and easy to get along with, so we will see.
rpk2012 said:
well, ive never been good at the whole dating thing, so dont be pissed if this isnt good. Got an airport near by? take her there, park at the end of the runway, targa off, that might work. I do that with my galpal, she seem to like it. My first date with her we went to a corn maze. and now we go to giants games alot (Hockey WHL) its cheap, so you gotta love it. And again, dont listen to your friends, they are just thinking with their weiners. IMO shes a good looking girl, go for it!!!
Jayhall said:
I worked at the airport here at one time. I wish it was a more active airport and it would be fun. If there were military jets here this week, I could get us in, but its real tight here lately with the darn airport rules and regs. Unf. I live in a hick town with no good sports except college football.
If anyone else has good ideas as such, but for a smaller town, lmk. In the meantime I will be thinking of some myself.
put a bunch of random ideas and events in a hat and pull one out. :rofl:
but seriously... the time you're spending together bonding is alot more important than the actual event or activity you're doing.
but maybe that's just me... dunno. I could have a good time with a girl in a cardboard box.
Dirty old men need not respond to that last comment. IJ, that means you! lol
but seriously... the time you're spending together bonding is alot more important than the actual event or activity you're doing.
but maybe that's just me... dunno. I could have a good time with a girl in a cardboard box.
Dirty old men need not respond to that last comment. IJ, that means you! lol
dude im from chilliwack BC about as small as u can get and still call a city.
out here its more then likely that if the cops come to a party there gonna start drinking with u. back on topic has anyone sugeted u ask her what she wants to do? it worked for me.
out here its more then likely that if the cops come to a party there gonna start drinking with u. back on topic has anyone sugeted u ask her what she wants to do? it worked for me.