I have never done this so have no idea what you could have done by reversing the polarity. I do know that there is a fuse from the battery to the car itself (fusable link would be more apt... at least I believe there is one). If that blows your car will not run until it is replaced.
Not sure if you can actually toast the ECU or any other electronic subsystem this way as I have never done it. I believe there are safeguards on the car for just this problem. Your lucky the battery didn't blow up.. I had that happen to me due to an overcharge and it was pretty scary. Lifted the front tires right off the pavement when it hit the hood. Bet you wont do that twice in your lifetime.. lol.
Not sure if you can actually toast the ECU or any other electronic subsystem this way as I have never done it. I believe there are safeguards on the car for just this problem. Your lucky the battery didn't blow up.. I had that happen to me due to an overcharge and it was pretty scary. Lifted the front tires right off the pavement when it hit the hood. Bet you wont do that twice in your lifetime.. lol.