So I figured out the resistor wiring, It took me long enough
The problem I am having is that I'm not getting power to the main relay in the fuse box under the hood. The wire that is black with orange stipe is getting no power to it.
My volt meter took a shit so I had to make a test light last night:/
If I apply power to the black with orange stripe then my ecu and safc will turn on.
I'm not sure what to check next to see why I'm not getting power to that wire.
But I did get it to fire up

but only due to the band aid, so