see, you're the one that wants the pussy, and that's a given..
what you gotta do is make HER want the cock, that way you can use that against her...
then again, i don't know how good you are in bed and to be honest, I don't wanna know..
say "look bitch, this is my shit, you don't like it, you can fuck off, alright?"
then she walks in the room and asks "who are you talking to?" you say "no one, Dear........I'll have dinner ready in 5 minutes, I swear this time.."