Ive never understoodm nor have I been a fan of sleepy eyes, but ther is a much easier way of doing it that doesn;t require you to buy a $80 control module from ebay, or bend any rods.
All you have to do is find the headlight main fuse in your engine bay, grab the wire that leads up to the underneath of the fuse box and cut it in half. Get a spring switch and splice a wire to each end of the wire you cut in half and run them into the car. Now connect those two wires to the switch and mount it. Thats it, your done. The switch controls power to the headlight actuators. Just hit the switch so it cuts off power at your desired hight