I dated a stripper before, she was kind of embarassed to say what she did for a living, but I kind of wondered when she had a brand new Mustang and only worked nights...
It was kind of cool while it lasted, but I couldn't help but know that 100s of other guys see what I saw every night, granted they didn't get to touch, but still. Even though I got over it, it didn't help when she'd come home and tell me about the guys that offered her a lot of money to go home with them at night.
It turned out she wanted to go into the adult film industry, because there was a lot of money in it. We'd been going out for about 7 months, and we'd gotten pretty close. But when she told me what she wanted to do, I couldn't take it. I told her I probably couldn't take the fact that I was sleeping with her when she'd been having sex all day with someone else.
And of course, she wanted a boyfriend, or even a husband when she went into it to feel more stable. She promised that it wouldn't mean anything, and I was the one she really loved. I was like, Ok, well, if you really love me, then I'll provide for you, and you won't have to do it! But she wanted to make her own money. She actually went in for some tryouts, and while we were still dating, she went out and had sex with a couple of guys who were adult movie makers. I did feel threatened, I saw the films and the tryout films, and that was it. I couldn't do it.