ok, some corrections from the last page.
If you wanna get technical, no, the rod doesn't load the crank, the rod loads the oil and the oil loads the crank, but the weight (not mass, very different things) of the rod IS applying a force against the crank. and if the rod DIDN'T apply a load to the crank, the car wouldn't move.
Titanium isn't always ideal. the beauty of steel (and SOME Titanium alloys) is that they have a minimum fatigue strength. as a little thought experiment, imagine you've got a pop can in your hands, and you twist/squish it (like what I'm sure you did when you where a kid on the playground to show the others what a badass you where) and then you pull it back apart and untwist it. repeat this maybe 2-3 times and the thing will come apart in your hands. Because aluminum (and indeed 99% of all materials) doesn't have a minimum fatigue strength, as it is stretched and compressed and loaded, it loses strength every cycle, a pop can is an extreme example that will come apart in only a few cycles, but MANY titanium alloys will do this same thing. There's a few Titanium alloys (particularly ones with a high concentration on vanadium, around 3% or greater if my memory is working) that behave like steel in that they will only get so weak, nomatter how many times you stress them.
This principle is why Cubans are still driving cars made in the 50's, steel components have an infinite life cycle if designed correctly and not loaded beyond that design. With most titanium alloys, you don't get that. With aluminum you certainly don't. This is also the reason that every component on an aircraft has a life cycle. It can only be loaded so many times before it weakens to a point less than the design requires, therefor they have a service interval at which they must be replaced. This goes for everything from an airframe to a bolt.