It was clearly explained to you in
post 17 why you received an infraction.
We understand you're facing a rough time, and we don't wish that on anyone, however when backed up against a wall, many people develop an ability to rationalize screwing people over in order to save themselves. (We've seen it dozens of times). While we're not saying we expect you do that, we simply ask that you post your items for sale normally as required by the rules. This allows your sale to be managed and treated with the same attention and respect that all classifieds ads get.
Nobody is disrespecting you, however if you keep whining you're only moving towards this becoming a wall of shame thread.
I hope things work out for you and you're welcome to stay/come back at any time, but give the whining a rest.