My ex of 4 years was dead set on having another kid,whether or not I agreed,kinda pissed her off when she found out I had gotten a vasectomy after my daughter was born and didn't tell her about it.Seems like a lot of women just want to have kids in an attempt to "trap" the guy they're with,or just because babies are "cute",without any thought as to if they are even able to,or financially responsible enough to raise a kid.Don't really have too much of a belief in marriage either,considering 90% of the people I know that are married,ranging in ages from 20 to 60,cheat on each other,or are just plain unhappily married.I'm not saying it's like that with everyone,just that true happily married couples are few and far between.