whoa whoa wait, what do you mean by it wont get more then 3000 rpm?
as far as your wifes knock sensor issues. Reach under the intake plenum, you should see/feel two connectors on the block push them in and see if they click. I got my car for $1900 because the kid thought the Knock sensors were failing, 5 minutes of examination and they clicked back into place and whamo worked perfect, aside from the blown head gasket.
If that doesnt work you will have to refer to supras.com for a writeup on how to redo your knock sensors. Its not hard, as long as you can cut some wire and have patience..
http://supras.com/06/techcenter/display.php?QID=69
As far as your car goes if your having a hard time building boost it could def be your cat. What exhaust do you have? It may be a bit loud but it would help to test things. Take off your exhaust at the downpipe, its 2 bolts and like 3 hangers and your catback exhaust comes right off. Run open downpipe and go for a spin see if it spools any quicker. if not you could go as far as unbolting the 3 bolts at the base of the turbo elbow and see if open turbo elbow fixes the issue. If not its something else..