here is an update. i ordered a new cometic 2.0MM HG just to be safe. i did the block test and it failed ever so slightly. i think it is only leaking under heavy boost. car runs fine, 650 idle, oil is not containmented, and i'm not loosing coolant.
i'm going to do a retorque this weekend and flush the coolant and oil system. if a retorque fails i'm going with the new MHG.
i only have 5000 miles on my rebuild. i hope the block is still in good shape as i don't want to pull it again.