Wait, you have the stock elbow?
And you said you could compress the actuator, with it still hooked to the gate?
With the actuator hooked to the gate, pushing the actuator towards the rear of the car you open the gate with no restriction until it hits your stock elbow, then it would compress the actuator. If the gate isn't opening, it is possible that there is a large build up of carbon behind the gate on the stock elbow impeding the movement of the wastegate flapper.
Solution: Pull the stock elbow and pull the actuator rod towards the rear of the car and verify that the flapper moves open and closed "freely"
You will be fighting the actuator, but it should move like it's hooked to a spring, not rusted in place.