Steve's got ur back, man. He sent me note letting me know your Dad passed.
Very sorry to hear. My dad passed when i was 4, so i really have no idea how you must feel, and no wish to ever find out...although my mom is 73 and 100 lbs overwt so i keep myself braced...heading down to florida sunday to take care of minor repairs to her house and visit for a week. Enjoy every minute with her these days..lots diff than when we were 18 and couldn't wait to leave home, huh?
We do what they taught us and pass it on...that's a pretty cool tribute.
Take care, brother, give a call if you wanna get a beer...me you and stever outta grab one sometime, it'd be good to meet you.