I'm with everyone else above. My girl got a nice necklace and bracelet that she wanted for her birthday. She wouldn't even THINK of asking me to pay for a dress that costs that much. Especially if she knows I got the money by saving over time for something that I really want. I don't neglect her by any means but she knows our budget and sticks to it. She saves for jewelry/purses/shoes she wants and I save for car/computer parts that I want and we budget nice things for each other for special occasions.
You haven't revealed your situation (age, seriousness of relationship, what the dress is for...) but any girl who whines to her friends about not having some $500+ dress is bad news. You can say today that it's for her Bday AND Christmas but is she just gonna want another dress come Christmas?
You haven't revealed your situation (age, seriousness of relationship, what the dress is for...) but any girl who whines to her friends about not having some $500+ dress is bad news. You can say today that it's for her Bday AND Christmas but is she just gonna want another dress come Christmas?