the two bolt are at the top of the engine where it meets the transmission.
You may want to loosen the engine mounts and the transmission mount and tilt the engine so that the trans is lowered, it should give you better access to the top bolts.
As far as the starter, you may want to remove the Alt then you can get a streight shoot at the bolt from the front, you will still need to hold the nut.
You may find it is easier to just remove the engine and trans as one unit and then seperate them. I understand it is a royal bitch to mount the trans from under the car.
Good luck
Steve