Okay, I read around some more.. took everyones advice... and here's what I did today.
I changed the plugs to the BCPR6ES gapped to .028, I found a boost leak... while changing my plugs...and lowered the FP to EXACTLY 25psi.
Now this is FTL...
http://img277.imageshack.us/img277/5712/dsc05777df5.jpg before it completely exploded I figure it raptured and it wasn't visible... until last night when I tried to push 12psi, it finally blew completely.
Now I welded the hole shit so no more problems there.
Car runs like a CHAMP.. AS OF NOW... FOR NOW. lol
Thank you everyone.