Looks like a few things need clarification here
First - the stock gauge is accurate...slow, yes...it is accurate.
Second - think of synthetic oil as a top shelf vodka...highly refined, all give you the desired results, and it comes down to how how well it performs for you (or your motor). It has never been my intent to say that this 0W-30 or that 5W-30 is best for your engine, or even a 5W-40 is bad. I've been trying to get guys to look at what they are doing in terms of oil flow through the engine and make an informed choice...not a choice based on "my sister's brother-in-law" told me.
A comparison is in order:
Rotella T 5W-40:
40 deg C - 95.0 cst
100 deg C - 15.5 cst
Castrol European Formula (aka German Castrol):
40 deg C - 66.8 cst
100 deg C - 12.1 cst
Regardless of "real life" experience, GC is going to flow better cold...it's simple physics. Take a bottle of each, put in the freezer for an hour and pour down a cookie sheet at a 30 deg incline. Time how long it takes to get to the bottom...it's not rocket science which will be faster. That is exactly how each is going to pump through your motor...it's a fact.
Now the question is how will each perform at a 100 deg ops temp. Keep in mind that a hydrodynamic bearings (like rod/main bearings) are like a water ski...they "float" on a film of oil.
The answer to that is it depends on how wide the bearing clearances are...either intentionally or from wear. If clearances are tight, GC will perform better...there will be higher flow through the bearings ensuring good film thickness to keep the bearings from touching the crank.
If clearances are at the wide side of spec (or are worn), the Rotella will perform better. The higher viscosity will provide a thicker film thickness and increased boundary layer lubrication will help keep the bearings from touching the crank.
The TSRM spec for oils is ancient history. Oil technology has come light years further than what was originally specified for the 7M. What is true, the 7M was spec'ed for a 30W oil and it covers the widest ops range for the motor. You can got to a thicker oil...in the case of a 175k engine, the Rotella T 5W-40 is a good choice to get additional life from the engine. I would not say that if it was a brand new rebuilt motor.
Bounty - I never said you are "destroying your motor"...I said that a 20W-50 is not the best oil for your engine and will cause wear at cold start. Why don't you PM Duane and ask him how a 15W-50 performed in his brand new 800 HP engine when it got cold outside in Vancouver. From your own experience, how do you think that 20W-50 did being pumped up to your cams and then through the small diameter channel through the middle. I rest my case.
Experience is a very good thing when it is backed up by the facts...making up facts or theories to support experience is a very bad thing.
The devil is in the details and the correct answer is always "it depends".