robeats91t said:However, ask a smoker and a non-smoker where appropriate places to consume those cigarettes would be, and you'll likely get two very different answers.
Exactly right. My dad smokes and he'll smoke around anyone anywhere. He sees no problem with it. I’m like your Fiancé’s mother and can’t stand smoke. I get really bad headaches from being exposed to it for the smallest amount of time and my eyes get red and watery even if I’m a good distance from the person smoking. While I’ve never asked someone to stop smoking around me (that’s not the kind of person I am) I do find it rude. But I also find it rude regardless of whether the people around you have allergies to it or not. And I don’t think it’s oversensitive at all. Sure, at a bar go for it. People expect smoking there. But if you’re walking around town, do you really need to light up right in front of someone and have your “waste” smoke blow in their face? I find that rude. To me it all relates to the same reason you don’t wear heavy cologne or perfume to a gym (among other places), or you don’t talk on the phone in the movie theater- they’re all just inconsiderate. Now I’m not saying it’s a big enough thing to make a deal out of, and it’s definitely not big enough to ban smoking all together, but it would be nice if other people saw actions like this as being inconsiderate or offensive.