Enough generalizations...time for specifics
It looks like you are wanting to use an aftermarket relay to energize the fuel pump using power directly from the battery...is this correct?
If so, typically you use the stock fuel pump wiring to energize an aftermarket relay feeding battery power to the fuel pump.
The way you do this (using an '89 wiring diagram):
- Pull the stock fuel pump relay connector (it's round) and on the harness side, jumper the connectors with the yellow wire and the black w/ red stripe wire. I would use at least a 14 gauge jumper.
- The yellow wire is from the ECU, the black w/ red stripe wire is the one running to the rear of the car that powers the stock fuel pump...this black w/ red stripe wire is the one you will use to trigger the aftermarket relay. Attach it to the relay side that actuates...a chassis ground is fine here.
- Attach a battery power wire (10 gauge min) to the "power" side of the relay. Make sure this wire is fused between the relay and battery...30 amp should do it.
- Attach another wire from the other side of the relay (10 gauge min) to the fuel pump where the original black w/ red stripe wire was attached. Make sure you have a good ground on the other side...a neg lead to the battery here is not a bad idea.
What is going to happen when you start the car, the ECU is going to command the fuel pump to run as normal (using the yellow wire), but power is going to flow to the aftermarket relay instead. It will actuate the relay completing the circuit between your battery to the fuel pump.
You will no longer need the stock FP relay or the resistor.
And, you should not blow the EFI fuse any more