you don't have to remove the engine as far as i know. at the very worst i could see the engine being unbolted and lifted or scooted forward because the studs will stick up, and you have to drop the head down onto them... take a look at your engine and notice how very close the firewall is to the back of the head...not much room to mess with...and i would imagine myself having a hell of a time getting it on without marring the head on a stud... BLAH
bolts will run about 75-80 i believe. studs a little more...figure 90-100 to be safe. oh and yes you can get ARP bolts. but again...the stockers are re-usable. i have a whole HUGE thread on this and i guess i could go back and quote people who told me this. i believe they were reputable...
you're not stupid, once you have the cam covers off its obvious though. you remove the intake, whichever way is most convenient...y-pipe or plenum (be prepared to get new seals for whichever ones you crack apart) and remove the covers. then proceed with the head bolts.
but refresh me here, what do you want to do, and why? I read that you want to change out the bolts...but they're already in there. why are you a "dumbass" did you blow the gasket again? what ft/lbs did you torque them down to?