Another update:
Well I found a turbo thanks to a local turbo shop out here called Arizona turbo and tractor’s, they have been so awesome and upfront!!!
I went with a T66 with a .68 rear A/R it’s a pretty good size IMO should be perfect for what I need it for
I have also ordered a 50mm wastegate thanks to Aaron at driftmotion, I have also ordered a lightened flywheel. So I am hopeing bye the end of this month if not the beginning of next month to have the motor dropped in the car