Im 21, not moving out for another year and a half, waiting for me and my fiance to get married. Anyways, I have an 18 yo pot head brother who keeps takin shit outta my room, CDs, Movies, anything, getting on my fucking computer (I lock it, but when I do he gets pissed an restarts it) using as his little pad. The stuff he takes out, I find lying in his nasty ass room, scratched or broken. He acts like its ok, even wears my fuckin clothes down to a muddy bayou to hang out and smoke... wtf.
Anyways, Step dad wont do shit, mom cant, if I hit him again or put his ass through a wall again Im prolly outta the house. He doesnt do SHIT, no job, dropped out, sleeps all day. I cant put a lock on the door bc my step dad will bitch and want it off, tried that. I dont wanna have to hide my own shit, its MY shit bought and paid for by me.
If you guys had this goin on, what do you do? Threats dont work, leverage only works so much, and even being as nice as I can be, hes still an asshole who thinks the world revolves around him. Were absolutely NOTHING alike. If we had diff dads I wouldnt be amazed. Anwyays, any other things I can do?
Oh, and Im never home, I work 8 - 10 hours a day and usually dont wanna be home, but when I am, I like my room, its MY room, only place I can be away from the rest of em.
Anyways, Step dad wont do shit, mom cant, if I hit him again or put his ass through a wall again Im prolly outta the house. He doesnt do SHIT, no job, dropped out, sleeps all day. I cant put a lock on the door bc my step dad will bitch and want it off, tried that. I dont wanna have to hide my own shit, its MY shit bought and paid for by me.
If you guys had this goin on, what do you do? Threats dont work, leverage only works so much, and even being as nice as I can be, hes still an asshole who thinks the world revolves around him. Were absolutely NOTHING alike. If we had diff dads I wouldnt be amazed. Anwyays, any other things I can do?
Oh, and Im never home, I work 8 - 10 hours a day and usually dont wanna be home, but when I am, I like my room, its MY room, only place I can be away from the rest of em.