Need some chick advice.

s383mmber1

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dcrusupra87 said:
Ok. I didnt take the time out of my spacious schedule to read the other posts, so what I would do is tell Girl A that you love her, and if I doesnt work out, say ok, you'll get over it and still be friends, then go bang Girl B until she crys. :evil2::evil2::evil2: Have fun.


Ive been thinking, and im going to girl B i love someone, and its not going to work with her.

Shes going to cry and call me a worthless basterd. But in the end ill know im better than her slutty ass.

Shes planning on comeing over tommarow night. I told her i was busy but shes bossy as shit and still wants me to bang her brains out tommarow. Shed be fun and all, for that small amount of time.

Girl B = half hour of fun

Girl A = life time of fun
 

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ChadMKIII said:
And if you get with A, dont screw around with B, or you will have lost A. I guarantee, she will find out.

Exactly!

But when you tell girl A don't be over powering or creppy about it. I'm not trying to say you would be, but some guys just have really bad ways of saying things like this to people they're friends with.
 

s383mmber1

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meggs521 said:
Exactly!

But when you tell girl A don't be over powering or creppy about it. I'm not trying to say you would be, but some guys just have really bad ways of saying things like this to people they're friends with.

Yeah im trying to figure out how im gonan tell her. And if i got with girl A i would treat her with such respect.

I could never ever cheat on her.

But im not getting my hopes up on going out with her.. :nono:

I doubt she feels the same way
 

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s383mmber1 said:
Yeah im trying to figure out how im gonan tell her. And if i got with girl A i would treat her with such respect.

I could never ever cheat on her.

But im not getting my hopes up on going out with her.. :nono:

I doubt she feels the same way

Not necessarily.
You really can't know for sure. Girls are weird. Sorry Meg & any other girls reading this, but its true ;-P

Annyywaaay, good way to tell her would be to break into it with giving her a little something, perhaps some flowers or what not. Meg, any suggestions what a girls would like?

I got lucky, when I went for the girl I mentioned earlier, I had been gone a trip with choir down to LA (and Disneyland) and I knew she really wanted a charm for the charm bracelet thingys. One of the nicknames she had was Belle (from Beauty and the Beast) so I got her a charm with Belle on it and one of those pathetic light-up rose thingys. But yeah, I was also nervous as hell and wasn't very slick at all, don't worry about that cuz it will only make you more nervous. If you stutter or whatever, its nbd. Really.

Give it a shot, and I'm glad you passed on B.

Very good decision.
 

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Nonono.

You don't say I love you.

That wont work. Or so I've heard from many other girls.

Again, what I did won't work for every girl, but I basically said that I really liked her a lot and wanted to be more than friends, and asked her if she would want to be more as well.

Anyway, that was how I did it.

Do what you feel most comfortable with, bro.

And, yes, what you said would be really, really weird.
 

s383mmber1

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I think im jsut gonan be myself. Thats all, if she doesn't like me for who i am, then that fine.

And if it help ill post up pics of both girls
 

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First of all, dont TELL girl A how you feel about her...SHOW her how you feel. be respectful, but not a puppy dog. I dont think you "love" her, I think you might be in love with the idea of being in love, otherwise you would have made your feelings known before now.

My personal advice is: If you value and respect girl A, dont sleep with girl B...she will find out and either be disgusted by your actions or (This second part is only if she secretly harbors feelings for you as well) she will be hurt by feelings of betrayal...either way...it will end badly. I think you should let girl A know how you feel (by your actions) and gauge her responces each time you go the extra mile. Dont be pushy, in fact most likely, if you can show her you care for her more than like friends, but at the same time let her know you wont be crushed if she doesnt feel the same way (that you can still be friends no mater what), then she might just approach you about taking your friendship to the next level.

Basically, let her know she is in charge, and whatever she feels you will respect...and take it from there.

If it doesnt work out...find a girl C to bang the stuffing out of!
 

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CtSupra said:
uhh.. wait a minute here. if girl b wasn't making her "hole in one" face; it looks like she might be the hotter of the two, lol.

Nope. Not even close. Shes not hotter, trust me. if need be ill post up another picture.