Need some chick advice.

[s383mmber1]

Ok guys, i need some serious advice and NONE of my friends (what friends?) can give me ANY advice.

Ok so ive known girl A for about 5 years. About last year we started hanging out non-stop and are pretty much BEST friends. WE do everything together, she works on cars with me, i go shopping with her. Shes very attractive, and me and her are like perfect toghether.

Ok, now girl B is definatly NOT girlfriends material, but she openly addmitted she wants in my pants. Shes wants to be my bang buddy. Which is awesome but shes not that attractive. And im REALLY afraid that if i hit it, there will be consequences after.

NOW--

I am basically in love with girl A and really really want a chance with her. Obviously im terrified of losing the friendship we have. I am ready to tell her im in love with her, but want some adivice first.

Should i tell Girl A im in love with her?
Should i do girl B and stay best friends with girl A?

Or should i ---- IDK im soo oconfused!!!!

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[IJ.]

Lay it on the line with A) but don't stress if it doesn't work out it's all part of life Will!

 

[MassSupra89]

This is very obvious... Girl A FTW. and here is why.

You have no emotional attachment to girl B it seems, she is just a girl to bang, and get your dick wet. If you want her as just a bang buddy thats cool, but remember you're missing out on a real relationship or a girl you can call yours and that makes you happy outside of bed.

If you go for it with Girl A and get her than you have a really cool/fun/hot chick as a girlfriend AND the sex (which will be even better because of her being much more to you than a lay.) Now if it doesn't work, maybe you can still be friends, maybe not, either way, you can probably still go back to the girl who wants your nuts and give that another shot.


I had a girl I was great friends with for about a year, we hooked up, it was going great, but we started getting in fights. It ended abruptly, we didn't speak for about 8 months, but then we became friends again. There is now another girl who really cares about me, and I really like her that I'm with, and that ex is the one who is tempting me to stray from my girl, almost like girl B is tempting you away from girl A. But after reading your story and making this much too long post, I know my girl A is much more important than a good lay from girl B.

/End rant. lol

 

[CTsupra]

well, first of all... does girl b know girl a, or have any kind of aquaintence with her at all? if not, bang girl b.

now, after having your way with girl b for a while, cut her off and find a new "girl b" that doesn't know girl a. remain best friends with girl a for a long time to make sure she feels the same about you. dont do anything to make her feel uncomfortable like telling her you're in love with her. marry "girl a" (your best friend) when the time is right.

 

[s383mmber1]

lol, you guys are funny!

Girl A and B are very good friends.......:cry:

I have no emotional attatchment to girl B but im afraid if i do her, shes gonan brag to her friends and shit, and it will be one big MESS.

I LOVE girl A and really want to MARRY her, but i am completly unsure if she feels the same way.

Her Ex bf treated her like shit. I took her out to lunch the other day, and i paid (as every guys should) and she goes "wow! your paying!" and im like "yeah why" and she guys (my Ex) never paid, and usually made me pay.

I want to marry girls A soo bad lol. She makes me happy just thinking about her.

 

[MassSupra89]

Whoa Will, don't drop the M word, you're so young, such a life ahead haha.

 

[suprahero]

Tell girl A how you feel, and tell the other girl to get lost. If she's that easy, you may not want to get what she's wanting to give....................


Good luck either way...................lol

 

[s383mmber1]

Whoa Will, don't drop the M word, you're so young, such a life ahead haha.

I know...i know....

But i really want to start a relationship with girl A im jsut terrified itll not work out.

I thik im gonan try telling ehr how i feel.

Maybe i should jsut have her read this thread! Maybe not....









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[s383mmber1]

Tell girl A how you feel, and tell the other girl to get lost. If she's that easy, you may not want to get what she's wanting to give....................


Good luck either way...................lol

Im waiting for her to get online. We were "gonna" get "together" tommarow night, but i dont think i want anything she giving.

Girl A - :love:

Girl B - :3d_frown:

 

[rakkasan]

Girl B FTW, Girl A is already FTL, and has been for about 4 years, 11.5 months.

Once you've know a girl for 15 days, if you haven't made a move, you're too late. You've entered the dreaded friends zone, for which you can't escape. Sorry to burst your bubble, but Girl A is happy to have you as a friend, so she doesn't want anything more than that.

You're young, so bang everything you can. One day you'll wake up & miss school and its' banging opprotunities. You have the rest of your life to be tied down, so bang all that you can while you can.

 

[rakkasan]

Oh, take some pictures of her while you're at it. :biglaugh:

 

[s383mmber1]

Oh, take some pictures of her while you're at it. :biglaugh:

Thats the thing, shes not very attractive, jsut skiny and blonde.

OMG I am lost in this world.

 

[CTsupra]

:rofl: NO! don't have girl A read this thread. are you crazy?

how long has it been since girl A was in a relationship? i'm telling you, do not tell girl A how you feel just yet. remain good friends with her, and she'll probably see the light.

oh yeah, and diss girl b. don't even talk to her anymore if you want a chance with girl a. actually, how good of friends are girl a and girl b? i'd probably stay away from girl a if girl b has a lot of influence over girl a.

lol, im getting

 

[s383mmber1]

Im gonan tell girl B to get lost tonight. Girl A doesn't really like girl B, but they are "friends". Get it?

Girl A got out of a shitty relation ship about one month ago.

 

[Fuzz420]

Bone girl "b" untill you can get hooked up with girl "a"

Next time i will have to charge your for my groundshattering advince

 

[CTsupra]

Once you've know a girl for 15 days, if you haven't made a move, you're too late. You've entered the dreaded friends zone, for which you can't escape.

There's escape. Just bang them.

There is not a guy in here that can say that they have girl friends just for the sake of having a friend. Unless you like shopping and bickering over which eye shadow to use you can't possibly have the same type of friendship with a female as two males can i.e. working on cars, or building a garage et cetera.

You're just friends with her because you haven't banged her yet. Same thing goes for females with lots of male friends.

Supra females are an exception to this

 

[s383mmber1]

Bone girl "b" untill you can get hooked up with girl "a"

Next time i will have to charge your for my groundshattering advince

I am not sure i want to bone girl B. Shes DEFINATLY a slut. And im really afraid word will get out and shit.

Idk, im LOST some one give me some insightful adive!!!! Past experiences?

Should i go for it with girl A? I can wait for sex. (not long though lol) but i can wait without doing girl B.

And if it help girl A loves my car. Girl B says its "ok"

 

[CTsupra]

Girl A got out of a shitty relation ship about one month ago.

I rest my case.

edit: just read your above post... i am speaking from experience.

 

[ChadMKIII]

Hmm, have to disagree with Rakkasan here.

OK, here's the deal.
Getting with B will most likely cause you to lose A if she's any good. You may very well have a chance with her, you may not. Knowing her for a long time, even being close friends doesn't necessarily relegate you to friends only.

So, go for A. Now, if shes cool with that, there you go, you've got her. If not, you can always go for Girl B who obviously doesn't care. She will be there either way, so don't risk it with her.

And if you get with A, dont screw around with B, or you will have lost A. I guarantee, she will find out.

I was in the same situation (minus the girl B) with a girl I loved but we were good friends for about 2 yrs. Thats a lot of what took me a while to make a move with her, I was afraid of what would happen if she said no, would I lose a good friend, not be able to talk to her or be around her without feeling weird, all that stuff, plus I went to school with her so I would have to see her everyday.

Here's the thing, I finally went for it, and we got together. Lasted about 8 months, and it was a great 8 months. The breakup had to do with other things, tho. Anyway, after we broke up, there was a little while (a month or two) where things were a little awkward, but we're good friends again. So even if she turns you down, after a little awkward period, there's a good chance you guys will be the smae friends, and there's always girl B, though I would hold out for someone better than that, anyway.

Cliffs:
Go for A
If she turns you down, B will still be there
Whether A accepts or not, you'll prolly stilll be good friends
(maybe just a short awkward period)
Don't have A read this thread

Good luck man.

 

[whudafux]

Ok. I didnt take the time out of my spacious schedule to read the other posts, so what I would do is tell Girl A that you love her, and if I doesnt work out, say ok, you'll get over it and still be friends, then go bang Girl B until she crys. :evil2::evil2::evil2: Have fun.