My Cat, My buddy

drunk_medic

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I'm feeling kinda sad, guys. I'm normally not a terribly emotional person, but one of my best friends is dying. His name is Eddie, and he is an all black domestic shorthair cat. He is only about 2 1/2 years old and I've had him since the day he was born. I am about 99% positive that he is dying of heart disease already. Feline Cardiomyopathy. I guess it's not terribly uncommon in young to middle-aged cats. He has all of the symptoms, aside from leg paralysis [caused by blood clots]. He used to run around the house alot, especially every morning at about 4-5am. Now he's lazy and hardly does anything. He hardly eats or drinks, and his breathing is very labored and faster than normal. When he sleeps, I have noticed that his mouth is partially open, probably to help him breathe better. He also spends most of his time sitting up with a blank stare. I don't think he is hurting - the only time he scrambles or meows in pain is when I pick him up and cradle him on his back like a baby. I think that may be from fluid in his chest [another symptom] - I don't know. The other day he was coughing just like a cat with a hairball, which was very odd - we feed the cats IAMS Hairball Care, he has short hair and I have NEVER heard him cough like that. I really think my buddy is nearing the end.

I remember on a Friday night in the spring of 2003, I was at work and it was almost time for me to leave work. My wife had accidentally locked herself out of the house and our pregnant cat Cricket, was freaking out, crying and yowling. My wife's luck - she was locked out and the cat was giving birth! She went to a neighbor's house and called me at work. I was able to convince the boss to let me go about 15 minutes early, and because I am lucky enough to live so close to work, I was home about 10 minutes later. I unlocked the door, and two of the kitties had already been born - one on the kitchen tile and the other in the hallway.
The black kitty was the biggest, friendliest, and most vocal. The leader of a litter of four. He would follow me around, and if I looked down to him and talked, he would talk back. He wouldn't just sit around and make noise - he wasn't annoying, but he would talk to you if you talked to him. That was really cool. I named him after Eddie Murphy [I think after watching "Coming to America", because I named another kitten from the litter was after James Earl Jones].
Eddie would run to me when called, and jump over, or knock over things to get to me. He was loyal like a dog. Eddie would also sleep on my chest if I fell asleep on the couch, and occasionally wake me up by rubbing his face against mine. A cat like that really makes you feel loved, no matter how crappy your day has been.
I feel like crap now, because I probably can't afford whatever treatment and medication can be done for this. Last time Eddie had to go to the Vet because of a fight/limp, it cost over $300 plus medication and spay/neuter, and that's when I HAD money. It's just sad, because I don't want him to die, but cats usually have a way of hiding what's wrong with them until the symptoms are so bad that they REALLY show it. Monday, I am going to the local vet/shelter and am going to ask what I can do, and what they can do.
For now, I am glad that while I monitor him, he is at least eating and drinking a little bit at a time here and there. I am also glad that while he is staying in the kitchen, away from us, he isn't angry [most cats get angry when they are injured or near death, and they want to be left alone] and seems very happy when we are with him to "visit" and pet him.

I don't know.. I just wanted to post this because I am sad and frustrated, and I know that among Supra lovers, there are some pet lovers here as well who have had experiences with their pets dying and I wanted to vent.
 

kwnate

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Sorry to hear that man... People always give me shit for having cats, but they're awesome. Its always hard to say good bye to a dear friend. My old family cat lives at my sisters with her other cat that just had to be put down. They were cremated (SP?) Kind of a neat option if you ask me! Again, I now the feeling and I feel for you.
 

??supra

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hye man i am sorry to hear. it weird i deal with shit like this everyday working in a veterinary clinic so i can relate on your pain. but my honest opinion in this case is do the humane thing. i kno it may sound a lil harsh and i kno its not easy but as my boss says "its all about the quality of life at this point." i also say this because if the anmal throws a clot its not pretty. i'll spare details cuz i kno its already diffucult to deal with.

sorry to hear man, my sympathy goes out to you. take care
 

Mob

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I also work at a Veterinary clinic. Definately see what they say, but if it comes down to it, ??Supra is right...quality of life is a major deciding factor. You obviously love your cat, so keep in mind what will be best for him in the long run.

Sorry man, and I'll keep Eddie in my thoughts. Its a horrible time/decision.

- Steven
 

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Dang DM, that sucks man. My cat was born at the golf course where I work and my boss convinced me to take him home one day. My cat sounds alot like yours, very friendly and "dog-like". He's also been in a few fights and had go get stitched up. Sorry to hear about your buddy. Hopefully its just a virus or something that can be cured with some aspirin or penicillin(sp).
 

??supra

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hey DM if you want to try and keep your cat healthy but you cant afford it, try looking up the animal welfare league in florida. i kno they help ppl who cant afford surgeries or treating a serious illness. they just help some unwealthy ppl get an amputation on there dogs leg after it was hit by a car. i mean i kno you care deeply about your cat, as do i about my cat and dog, so i kno i would try anything and everything to make them better, or at least comfortable as possible. if you have any more questions about it let me kno and i can see what i can look up for you. take car and best wishes to you and your buddy

~Anthony
 

jbsupra89t

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Sorry to hear man, I remember when my collie was on his way out, it was pretty damn depressing. We got him when I was about 5 and he was around till I was 18. He lived a long time, and it was sad to see him go, tons of memories :( Best wishes to your cat and yourself.

-J
 

drunk_medic

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Tomorrow morning I am going to take him in to see what is recommended. I was worried tonight when he wouldn't even eat wet food. We normally just give them wet food as a "treat" or to give medicine when needed and they love it. I was coming in here to type my frustration, but as soon as I came in here to type, I looked over and he started to eat it. He didn't eat ALOT, but he ate enough for now. He doesn't look like he's lost much weight, but his appetite is definitely not the same.
I hope that the vet can do something for him, whether it's medication or something else that is affordable. He doesn't seem like he's in pain, so having him put down is probably not a good option.
He actually just climbed in the litterbox, so that's good - I haven't been monitoring that very closely, which I know sounds gross to the non pet savvy, but you need to watch every part of your pet when they are sick or acting strange.
I hope he doesn't have to suffer any. For all I know, he might be hurting right now and just hiding it.
 

??supra

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man i wish that there was something more that i could help with. lke i said in my previous post, try calling the animal welfare league they might be able to help with payment of treatment.
 

SupraMario

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Man srry to hear man, we have put down 5 dogs, 4 of which made it to 15+ years of age. we had to put down a full blooded chocolate lab, because he had cancer, its really hard to make decisions like that, but its better for them in the long run, no more pain.
 

drunk_medic

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Well, this morning I took him in. He was panicked and meowing in pain or from being scared - I don't know. I told the vet everything and they basically gave me the options. Putting him down was the best thing - his state worsened just from taking the trip to the clinic.
They gave him the shot and brought him out to me. I held him until he died, at about 11:10am central. The circle of life is a sad, cruel thing sometimes. Eddie died much too young. I've never had an animal make me cry, but man, this one did. Like I said, he was loyal like a dog - man's best friend. I'm going to miss him. Goodnight, Eddie.

Thank you for your support, everyone.
 

americanjebus

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wow theres more cat people here than i expected, including me, had to put my cat down, middle of winter it took off like it does every day except it didnt come back that night, or for hte next 4 nights, i waited and searched for that cat seriously 5 times a day and i never found him till the 5th day when i saw him limping accross the street to our house with a seriously a hole in its swollen paw that was seriosly about hte size of its head, got bit by another cat and the fang went completely through its paw. immediatly grabbed him and drove it to the vet where i was told i had to put it to sleep cus it was so infected and the cat had gotten so weak and sick in the winter. so i did, it sucked especially having to carry the cat while driving and hearing it meow that scared sound they make when they know something is wrong. really really hope you dont have to put your pet through the same thing.
 

??supra

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hey man i am really sorry tohear, but think of it this way, he wont be suffering anymore. and if you think about it, in a way it does ease your pain. i mean it sucks loosing someone soo close, but to kno that they no longer suffer, brings a sense of closure and comfort. sorry to hear man. take care

~Anthony
 

SupraMario

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americanjebus said:
wow theres more cat people here than i expected,

I've never owned a cat and not really a cat person, i just feel for all animals, and it seems that drunk really took care of this creature and did the right thing.
 

supraman7mgte

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I know the pain dude. You were lucky enough to be there to see him off in person,I had to do mine over the fone,and regretted it ever since. R.I.P. YANCEE Great,now you made me tear up
 

drunk_medic

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Today was a strange day weather-wise. The few from this forum who are from this area [and I know that there are a couple] can attest to this - it started to rain a light bit when we left for the vet's office around 10am. When we got there, it was raining, but when we got inside, it started to pour. We had to wait for awhile [I don't know - time stood still, but it felt like at least 45 minutes] for Eddie to be seen. It let up a little bit. After we made the decision and they gave him the shot, they brought him out to me. I held him while he died, and it started pouring again, harder. After he was gone and we left the building, the raining stopped and the sun came out. It made the day feel even more dramatic, but it was a really good omen. It made me feel like Eddie's suffering had come to an end, and he was at peace.

Once again, thanks for all of your kind words, everyone. It means the world to me to hear that there actually are kind-hearted animal lovers out there. Most people that I am around [people I work with] most of the time either do not have animals, or they have dogs and dislike cats.

As things are right now, I'm mourning, and getting pissed tonight. This weekend after I get his remains I'm going to do the same - Irish wake, to help me get over this sad occasion.

Here's one to all of man's best friends. Cheers.