I'll be blunt. SM has never been a warm fuzzy forum. That's not to say we're always complete douchebags, but we don't suffer fools easily around here.
This bullshit that you posted today, that's embarrassingly stupid and lazy, and we're simply not going to tolerate it. So stop being a dumbass, and making your problems everyone else's, or go somewhere else.
You are more than welcome to be here, but do your homework, and realize that I, and everyone else here value their time as much as your friend values his.
You're new here, this forum owes
you nothing. If you want something from us, play by our rules, respect our time, or get the fuck out. Either way, it's no skin off my nose.
My first suggestion is that you read over the FAQ, and the site rules. You'll find that one of them says if you have a problem with a thread being closed, contact a mod or admin and ask about it. Threads like this don't help your case.
And I strongly suggest you read the post Kai linked above, it should probably be titled the "SM Survival Guide".
Rethink your approach to this site before you post again.