LOL, i went to autozone, had a chat with my buddy, i told him i needed 7/8th rubber hose (because thats what i measured using a tape) which of course they didn't have, then he called his buddy who told him that its a special 22mm heat treated hose to stand the hot oil from the turbos, and not a standard item that an autoparts store had.
And as far as aftermarket is concerned, i did find one braided assembly on ebay which sure does look pretty, although i'd still need that pcv hose, maybe i can find an aftermarket replacement for that too.
hmm.... i really thought there would be a different answer, i've read, at one point (when i was doing initial 1j research) that there was like 1 dealer that could get replacement parts, i haven't been able to find that thread oh well, i figured there was some way to order from japan, but i haven't been able to find anything. I'll call driftmotion, i honestly didn't even think about that, thank you very much for your time (all of you).