After finally speaking with someone a little higher on the chain, and reminding them of the 40-50k I spend a year on HKS, they backed off somewhat. They tel me NOW, that is more an issue with cracking down on hks knock offs, and that a blanket e-mail was sent to anyone with a hks word in a search engine.
I have 10 or 12 wholesale accounts I supply, that do still want to sell some hks, so for the time being, I will go back to selling hks. However, I will still use my own photo's, to avoid any BS in the future.