I hear the worries about wearing out the cams faster...
Keep this in mind. These springs are not that agressive really. (Not much more than the stock 2JZ pressures IIRC.)
The coil bind is better even though the springs are slightly longer than stock, but the wire is smaller diameter, and it allows for more spring compression before coil bind as a result.
We checked a stocker v/s the Comp Cams BBC inner valve spring, and it was better in every way than the stocker for performance.
They are not so agressive your going to float a valve at maximum TCCS RPM, and I'd say you could rotate this engine with these springs to 7500rpm with few if any problems.
For the money, there is no better alternative that I know of spring wise.
Valve stem wise, the shop doing your valve job will just file/grind down the ends of the valves to get the right clearance value for each valve. (They have to do this anyway when the seats are cut, it changes the overall length of the valve when seated v/s the end of the stem, and that changes the cap/lifter/shim to cam lobe clearance.)