So far, I'm heading for this one:
http://www.lilliputweb.net/ts859.html
Still the weak resistive style touch, but I'm planning on using that as little as possible.
As for the location, it's going where the stock radio used to be. I've got one of the aftermarket fiberglass consoles that someone here was manufacturing way back when, and the only holes it has in it are for the climate control and the hazards. Well, and the shifter boot, of course.
Originally, I was going to get a Xenarc 840TSV, which was a Toshiba panel, but they've discontinued that model, so I can't get 800x600 native unless I go for the Lilliput.