Thanks Grandavi,
I called my body shop and he voulenteered to call State Farm. They said the same thing...so I called back again and got a different rep. I told him the story and he said that they do cash out under certain circumstances and since they have an agreement with this shop, they could authorize it. He called the shop to double check that it was approved by them to pay me, and when he came back he said its taken care of and I'll have a check, a copy of the estimate, and a letter that it has been payed out. I'm assuming that's a claim closure letter.
Either way it seems like it's sorted (although I am exactly in the place I was a week ago, so I'm not holding my breath) and I think it will be ok.
I can't go spend $1500 on a camera I was watchign on ebay, and I'll miss auctions further, but perhaps it's fate, we'll see. I'm currently weighing the risks of buying something so expensive given the history of my experience with getting what I expect.
I'm glad this is dealt with, I've spent most of the past few months on the phone and dealing with claims. I'm dealing with a whiplash neck tweak injury claim that has now developed into a lawsuit (I'm fine, neck is better); it took two months to sort out getting a new motherboard from ASUS because mine died (seriously I called 18 times or more and spent HOURS of my time, through miscommunication and an unacceptable replacement board), and then when I had a stomach bug I woke up at 3am to hear my car getting hit.
Having one less thing is nice, and the motherboard just came in and I finished my computer rebuild last night. It didn't look perfect but I asked for a new heatsink and at least I can get back to work with my business... so I'm just about down to one significant "deal with this" thing, and a lawyer is doing most of the pushing now.
Thanks again! I appreciate the support.:love: