Girlfriend Cheated on me (Dont read if profanity offends you)

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dcrusupra87 said:
Thanks for the laughs guys. I did calm down a lot now. And I wont fight him but it really is going to take a lot to hold back if/when i see him. I may have met another girl today. And she drives a crossfire.:naughty: Blonde hair, blue eyes. But i dont kno. We'll see what happens. Time will tell.

asian_baby01.jpg


:p
 

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Hey man, too bad about the cheating girlfriend. My only question is why at the ripe age of 19 are you with one girl anyways? You should have your pimp hand strong with about five or six different girls. J.K. but I wouldn't sweat the girl that cheated on you. If you don't stoop to her level then you will be rewarded with good karma later. That's a promise. Violence won't solve anything. I know you've already said you wasnt going to hit him, but when you see him, you may think differently. Try to refraim from doing anything that's going to cause you more trouble than relief.....lol. Good luck.
 

SP 7M

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I'm really sorry to hear about that, man. I went through that at Christmas time this past year with my ex-shithead (wife). Let me tell you, though, once you get past the initial shock of it you have to realize that it was all for the better. If you were 100% faithful to her and treated her well then you didn't deserve it. You'll now be the one to have good come your way and she'll get what she deserves, too.

As hard as that may be to believe, you're much better off without her. There's somebody better for you and that's all there is to it.
 

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Glad to see you came out of your heartbreak stronger than ever sp7m, maybe he will take what you said to heart, since you just experienced it. I was trying to offer advice even though I've never went through a break up like that. My wife (mkiiivixxen) and I have been married for 13.5 years and dated 5 years before we got married. I'm only 35 so that's most of my life. Hope he can see that everything happens for a reason, and good karma is coming his way....lol
 

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Suprahero-You're absolutely right-I'm doing much better than I ever have been now that she's gone. There is no reason to be hung up on somebody that would/did do something so horrible to you.

Best of luck to you and your wife.
 

MKivSupra_Rob

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yeah guys dont give a shit if their easy pussy has a bf, loo kat it this way, shes a tramp anyways, if it makes you feel better stab them both. (obviously jk)


(but seriously, stabby stabby)


(atleast ruin his car or something ,dont let that bastard get away with no scars)




(stab)
 

MDCmotorsports

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Real simple how to fuck with her:

A.)Post her cell phone number in cars.com or autotrader.com with the words "94 toyota supra twin turbo for sale. $6000 obo. Not a scam!"

Watch her go through hell in a hurry with her phone ringing off the hook alll night long.

On a serious note, could you not tell she was fucking around on you? I mean did she "come up missing" one night or what? We want more details man.
 

whudafux

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She never did anything to that effect. I found out thru a message that her friend sent her. Apparently they were saying I was cheating on her. Because one of her friends who has never seen me "saw" me at the mall one day. I was actually with my girlfriend at the time she "saw" me. The message read, and I quote with spelling errors and all, "dats not cheatting .. goin 2 da mall isnt cheating ......wat u did wit jake is cheating" My heart dropped when I saw that. I took a picture of it and its now the background on my phone. :biglaugh: It's how I deal with things. It will remind me not to fuck with girls like that now.
 

MKivSupra_Rob

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dcrusupra87 said:
She never did anything to that effect. I found out thru a message that her friend sent her. Apparently they were saying I was cheating on her. Because one of her friends who has never seen me "saw" me at the mall one day. I was actually with my girlfriend at the time she "saw" me. The message read, and I quote with spelling errors and all, "dats not cheatting .. goin 2 da mall isnt cheating ......wat u did wit jake is cheating" My heart dropped when I saw that. I took a picture of it and its now the background on my phone. :biglaugh: It's how I deal with things. It will remind me not to fuck with girls like that now.

a girlfriend of over a year didnt even have any intention of telling you about this? what a tramp, stab
 

SP 7M

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Rob (MKIV type)-You need to calm yourself. Stabbing is illegal in most states as far as I know.

DCRU-I think a good move for you to make would be to delete that picture of the message. Every time you open your phone it will envoke negative emotions inside you. More negativity is the last thing you need, dude. Actually, I'm now telling you to delete it. You have no choice.
 

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I have been through worse. Try 2.5 years with a girl and then she cheats on you LOL.

I never held a grudge against the other guy....besides its the GIRL That does the cheating...makes the decision to cheat yada yada.

The guy does nothing except get sloppy seconds:biglaugh:

-Jonathan
 

SupraMario

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Wow LOTS of Testosterone in this thread!

An Old Guys perspective: Just move on life's too short to dwell on negetive crap you'll only feel bad at the end of it all.

You have to accept some of the blame for it happening as if she were happy she wouldn't have strayed so look into yourself and try and pinpoint what part you had to play and try to not do that again in the next relationship.

In a year or so repeat and again every few years till you're old and can pass this advice along to a young heartbroken guy ;)

Amen, I'll drink to that, forget'em all, die alone.:beer::beer:
 

MKivSupra_Rob

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SP 7M said:
Rob (MKIV type)-You need to calm yourself. Stabbing is illegal in most states as far as I know.

DCRU-I think a good move for you to make would be to delete that picture of the message. Every time you open your phone it will envoke negative emotions inside you. More negativity is the last thing you need, dude. Actually, I'm now telling you to delete it. You have no choice.

lol i was kidding


but seriously dude, atleast stab her car's tires, <-- slightly more legal
 

siman

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Best thing to do is go up to her and tell her that you " Are sorry for not being able to fullfill her needs as well as the other guy does"

Then just without saying ANYTHING after, LEAVE.

No goodby. No eye contact. JUST LEAVE.

She is not dumb, she will think about it. She will feel guilty for not telling you and not communicating with you.


It worked for me. Made me feel better in the sense of closure for myself.

And the best part is knowing that YOU CANNOT SIMPLY PLEASE EVERY GIRL YOU DATE IN THE SAME WAY. They all think differently, and who cares...that just means you and her were NOT MENT TO BE

-Jonathan
 

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I dated a girl that I though was great, mostly because we had the same car, but thats beside the point. Anyway, I lost her to a good friend of mine, and then met my current g/f (of 4 years) not long after. Obviously it was meant to be.
 

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Sorry to hear that. I lost my ex lady to my ex best, best friend. It tore me up inside. I lost 2 relationships. I took out all my agression working out, martial arts and the punching bag. I've never done so many reps and punches in my life. I've never been in the best shape in my life. in time I met a new girl. One thing I wouldn't reccomend is driving fast on the highway or canyons because your upset with a girl. I did that and pushed over my limits which lead to the huge dent on my supra. though crusing to through the city at night helps, well helped me.
 

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your GF cheated on you? that sucks... if your girl was good, she would have done what the girl in my avatar is doing. now you know. better now than later.

on a more positive note, i saved a bunch of money on my car insurance by switching to geico :chicken: