I have been running the HPF Ferramic FF w/new OEM FW and RPS Max PP for eight+ years at 350+rwhp. I have welded the disk to the flywheel several times, each time it was under racing conditions, slipping it off the line, but only once on an aggressive street launch.
Each time it welded, I just let it cool, drove it up in the RPM's and chopped throttle during a downshift to break it free. I have disassembled it before, and it transfers a small portion of the ferramic material to the FW during the welding process. This material comes right off once cooled, and has left no damage to my FW or PP.
I have the Southbend six puck in my wife's Supra, and it is a noticable lighter pedal feel yet still slip-proof at her current 320 rwhp.
I have avoided the lightened FW's because of their inherent lack of cooling mass and the subsequent welding risks even with less aggressive friction disks, their faster wear and shorter service intervals, and the dificulty in obtaining replacement parts for older designs and/or brands.
I don't like doing clutch work of any kind so the RPS/HPF/OEM combo is about the most bulletproof combo I could find. Almost nothing in this system will wear out within the next ten years. My bet is I lose the release bearing first...or the meniscus in my left knee from the OMG pedal pressure of the RPS PP...Not kidding...!
And before the RPS bashing starts, I am only going by personal experience when I state that I have had two RPS clutches. Both are still fully operational. One in my car, (4-5yrs old)and my original one is in a freinds 350+rwhp Supra(8+yrs old). Another freind has been through three ACT clutch failures during the time I have owned my two RPS's. He is currently tring to break his fourth ACT setup.
I took a chance with the Southbend, and have been pleasantly surprised at it's light and streetable (wife friendly) engagement even with the six-puck sprung hub Kevlar-Ceramic disk.
As far as killing motors with the RPS PP, just remember to shift to neutral and release the clutch before starting the car. That way there is no load on the center shaft and crankshaft to cause premature wear on the crank thrust bearing prior to oil pressure coming up. Good practice no matter what clutch you run...IMHO.