Ok, this is what happened. I yanked my engine to send off to get rebuilt. While I had it on the engine stand I disassembled it. While taking off my exhaust manifold the nut was very hard to break loose, so I took an impact gun to it. Thinking that it wouldn't do any damage loosening a nut I took the first one off. The power of the gun immediately remove the nut along with the stud and some aluminum shavings. So I ruined the fist one. The rest of the nuts I decided to use PB blaster, and removed them by hand. The rest of them came out with ease.
I took my head to the machine shop just to check for straightness, make sure the valves where seating correctly, have new valve stem seals installed, mill it straight to accept a MHG, and to get that one stud hole I stripped repaired. Turns out they retapped and heli coiled all of my exhaust stud holes by accident. They thought I asked for all of them to be retapped. Why the hell them would remove all of the studs and retap them is beyond me. That just didn't make sense. Being that there are 7 @ $12.50 each I didn't want to pay an extra $75 for something I didn't ask for, so they took that price off. I asked for my studs back, and they just told me I could pick them up somewhere cheap. I didn't argue, I just took my head and left.
So I'm thinking that it was the power of the impact that ripped it out, and hopefully not a softened head. And I do know that 1.25 is the thread pitch of a stud. I didn't know the nut size, or the length of one. I do vaugely recall that the stud had a space in between the threads that the manifold sat on. Would it be bad if I bought studs that didn't have that space? You know, studs that had threads throught the entire length of it?